crowry:

conciseadvice:

  • GATHER YOUR THOUGHTS!
  • PRIORITIZE THEM; WHAT IS THE THOUGHT YOU WOULD MOST LIKE TO CONVEY, IF YOU COULD ONLY CHOOSE ONE?
  • BEGIN WITH THAT THOUGHT WHEN YOU INITIATE POLITE DISCOURSE.
  • YOU SHOULD INITIATE POLITE DISCOURSE WITH THE APPROPRIATE PARTY
  • DO NOT DISCUSS ISSUES YOU HAVE WITH A FRIEND OR ACQUAINTANCE WITH ANOTHER PERSON IN LIEU OF DISCUSSING IT WITH THE ACTUAL FRIEND/ACQUAINTANCE.
  • IF YOUR INTENTIONS ARE ROMANTIC, STATE THEM AS SO. COYNESS IS A SOURCE OF ANXIETY FOR MANY. CLARITY IS ROMANTIC.
  • IF YOUR INTENTIONS ARE CONFUSING TO YOURSELF, TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION THE OTHER PARTY (OR PARTIES) FEELINGS; IF EXPOSING YOUR FEELINGS WOULD SERVE ONLY TO RELIEVE YOURSELF, WAIT UNTIL YOU CAN ISOLATE A CLEAR INTENTION. 
  • IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ANOTHER PERSON, DO NOT ASSUME THEY KNOW. COMMUNICATION IS VITAL. MIND READERS ARE RARE IN THE HUMAN RACE.
  • IF YOU HAVE SPECIFIC QUESTIONS YOU MAY CONTACT ME THROUGH THE ASK BOX AND I WILL RESPOND.
  1. I have started a no-bullshit advice blog.
  2. Anon is on.
  3. Advice will be given for things I feel confident advising on. 
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